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		<title>Someone probably hates you too</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 18:34:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Marriage is the crucible upon which we tend to  level our fear of the unknown or the undesirable. This is not just because of a fear that gays and lesbians marrying will breach the gender binary (and cost the government millions in lost tax revenue)... No, it's the manifestation of our deeper need to put people into categories: male/female, masculine/feminine, married/single/widowed/divorced, secular/non-secular, working mother/domestic mother, Democrat/Republican, liberal/conservative, socialist (gasp!)/capitalist, violent/non-violent, Jewish/Muslim/Hindu/Buddhist/Christian, etc. GEEZ - we're judgemental! But that keeps us safe, right?!<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=2006&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Self-righteous indignation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 22:55:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Apparently, everybody is an authority on motherhood too...and the worst offenders are other mothers. Why? Because we can't avoid the voice in our heads yelling that we know what's best. And, because we're mothers and thus very important people (certainly this is true in our own lives!), we are obligated to make sure that other mothers know what's what.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=1982&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Letter to a sick friend</title>
		<link>http://thefemspot.com/2011/09/29/letter-to-a-sick-friend/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2011 14:46:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, of course, the biggest change in my life is not New Jersey, or even yoga…she’s Ellie. I had a daughter about 14 months ago. This entire experience has changed me from my core out...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=1978&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Teen pregnancy &#8211; oh, the glamour!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 19:24:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I'm an Artist in Residence at Xhibit P!<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=1970&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Why blame the victim?</title>
		<link>http://thefemspot.com/2011/05/21/why-blame-the-victim/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2011 02:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It's more comfortable to believe that Tootie would have been safe if she had been in the "safe" park for small dogs, than it is to believe that she could just as easily have been bitten by a vicious dog on that side of the fence too. And fences can be breached just like rules, no? At the end of the day, it's a violent perpetrator who is unsafe; not a dark alley or a bar or a dog park. Those are spaces. We choose how to fill them.
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		<title>Oh, the sexist things we say&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://thefemspot.com/2011/03/26/oh-the-sexist-things-we-say/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Mar 2011 18:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The real sexism at work here, however, is making this statement targeted at any woman...at all. That's because it automatically implies that pregnancy is the fault of women and women alone. The last time I checked, pregnancy results from sex/fertilization between lady AND man bits.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=1908&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>No Facebook for me</title>
		<link>http://thefemspot.com/2011/02/12/no-facebook-for-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Feb 2011 18:34:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Facebook hosts a type of social interaction that has no rules; or perhaps has some rules that nobody can agree upon. For instance, we'll never agree to what information should constitute a Wall post.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=1883&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The ugly truth about Mary</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Dec 2010 21:38:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[History has been written primarily by men. And in Mary's day, this experience of pregnancy and childbirth would have been witnessed by women and its story passed from mother to daughter in an oral tradition. Were there a Gospel according to Oprah, for instance, we might know more truths about the birth of Jesus.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=1866&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t look, she&#8217;s eating</title>
		<link>http://thefemspot.com/2010/11/14/dont-look-shes-eating/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 02:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Largely I've overcome this negativity when it comes to food, but not when it comes to the concept of being thin. Women are supposed to be thin, aren't we? There's no other way to be accepted as outwardly beautiful. I tell myself and everybody else that I just want to get into a healthy weight range, though in the back of my mind, an insecure teenager is screaming and weeping, "I want to be thin!" Thin is in vogue. Why? Like most things, being thin is popular because it's exclusive to a small group of people, and for the most part, those people are wealthy. "Good" foods - as opposed to bad foods like those composed of fat and carbohydrates - are expensive to come by. So, like the clothes that most women want and can't afford, diet foods and diet pills and liposuction, etc. cost too much money for most. Even when you break down nutritious eating to the simple task of cooking meals with fresh produce and lean protein, you still come up with the fact that many people don't have that kind of time on their hands. Time is money.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=1829&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Postpartum sexy</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The thing about postpartum sexy is that it's different from the kind of sexy we knew before. When you're newly married without children and your husband brings you flowers or strokes your hair or rubs your feet after a long day...that's sexy. I used to want to make love to my husband because of his goodness. But after pregnancy and childbirth, I have found that I love him the most when I observe his tender yet strong paternalism.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thefemspot.com&#038;blog=3742533&#038;post=1777&#038;subd=femspotter&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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